- Robin Hilmantel (Cosmopolitan Magazine)
You should have him at hello.
A Cosmo poll found that 34 percent of guys say they wish their lady would surprise them with oral when they walk in the door. Tell him to text you when he's almost home, then ambush him.
His "boys" want to join the party.
Fifty-one percent of men complain that their women ignore their balls during oral. Try this trick: While your hand strokes his shaft, take one testicle at a time into your mouth and lightly suck.
Lube can taste good.
If you're going to be down there for a while, you may get a case of cotton mouth, which can cause chafing on his penis. Lube can fix that. Lots of companies are making flavored formulas that taste just slightly fruity or minty, not like candy-coated toxic waste. Try one of ours HERE.
If you're into it, he's into it.
One thing that turns guys on is enthusiasm. In fact, lots of them have a hard time fully enjoying themselves because they worry that their woman hates being down there. Let him know you like it by softly moaning as you take him into your mouth.
Your hands can take it to the next level.
One Cosmo sex poll found that guys say their favorite thing is when their woman uses her mouth and hands on their package at the same time. Stack one hand on top of the other on his shaft, and gently twist in opposite directions. At the same time, flick your tongue—like a snake—over the tip.
You're probably missing a spot.
Here's a secret erogenous zone that you should definitely hit while you're down there: Trail your tongue down his shaft to the area between his testicles and the base. Purse your lips together, and lightly suck on the patch of skin. It's packed with nerve endings, so any attention you give it will feel heavenly.
A vice-grip can be nice.
The ridge of his penis—where the tip meets the shaft—is very sensitive to touch. Cover your teeth with your lips, and place them around that ridge like a vice. Apply firm pressure—like how you squeeze fruit—then release and repeat. This movement perks up the nerves there and then lets them relax, which can feel really good.
There's a digital version of oral.
Here's a unique way to give his frenulum—the tiny bump on the underside of his penis where the shaft meets the tip—some special attention: Place the tip of your finger on it, then take his shaft (along with your finger) into your mouth. As you move your mouth up and down, rub your finger over the F-spot.
Feast his eyes.
You probably already know that guys are extremely visual, but it can be hard for him to get a decent view while you're down there lavishing his penis with love. Place a standing mirror next to you so he can check you out. The combo of feeling and seeing you will blow (pun intended) his mind.
Give these tips a try and see what kind of reaction you get from your man!